What is the “TikTok Rizz Party”?
This all began three lifetimes ago back in May of 2023 when a flier appeared on some cars in Florida advertising a “TikTok Rizz Party.”
Rizz, for the uninitiated, is a Gen-Z/online term for being charming and having charisma. It started on Twitch a few years back and has since blown up everywhere—particularly TikTok.
The fliers were quickly posted (and annihilated) online, dubbed as “extreme cringe” based on the party planners’ choice to use already-dated internet slang in an attempt to appeal to a younger audience.
From there, the image went viral for its sheer ridiculousness before seeming to peter off toward the end of the year—but not for long.
Why is this a meme now?
Well, the once-dead meme has reemerged thanks to a TikTok posted by Island Entertainment.
This past March, the event company posted a short video to their TikTok featuring of a group of teenage boys scream-singing along to “Carnival” by Kanye West. The original video—which has accumulated well over 7 million likes—features the caption “The boys showing how it’s done at Jillian’s sweet 16.”
But how does this relate to a party advertised over a year ago? Well, thetop comment on the video is, quite literally, “TikTok Rizz Party.” You see, many online have dubbed this specific party the actual “TikTok Rizz Party” due to the nature of the clip, with countless TikTok users and meme makers analyzing every single second of the footage from Julia’s now infamous birthday party.
Who is Turkish Quandale Dingle?
One of the young men gained his own share of attention when someone noticed his resemblance to “Quandale Dingle,” a meme character often depicted through distorted images of NBA Youngboy.
By early April, the individual known as “Turkish Quandale Dingle” unveiled his true identity on TikTok. In a video featuring another teen from the initial TikTok, who had earned the nickname “Blue Tie Kid,” “Turkish Quandale Dingle,” now sometimes referred to as TQD, revealed himself as Michael Amato. Similarly, “Blue Tie” was identified as Sebastian Sarmiento.
@michael_amato1 Average after a tt rizz party @COOKIES BACK 🧞♂️ @Seby_261 #fyp #tiktokrizzparty #turkishquandiledingle #bluetie ♬ original sound – Stan :)
Who is the Blue Tie Kid?
The Blue Tie Kid the leader of the TikTok Rizz Party boys, deemed a main character after a TikTok of him dancing at a sweet sixteen birthday party went viral. The teen was later identified as Sebastian Sarmiento and his TikTok handle as@seby_261.
Other Rizz Party ‘characters’
Yes, you read that correctly, friends. TikTokers far and wide have begun scavenging the app for more shared videos from this sweet 16, trying to decipher the “hierarchy” of this friend group, creating backstories and assigning personas to the “characters,” and even going so far as to create their own conspiracy theories—all about a group of teenagers they’ve never met based on a few seconds of footage. It’s like the Marvel Cinematic Universe, but weirder and with more blue neckties!
Here are just a few of the most popular examples:
@zoropium credit to @rice🏎️ for last clip #fyp #tiktokrizzparty #meme #foryou ♬ original sound – zoropium
@imp3rio123 i can feel my brain rotting from tiktok rizz party #tiktokrizzparty #rizz #tiktokrizz #rizzparty #groupleader #bluetie #quandaledingle #trending #funny #kanye #meme #edit #tomato #party #rizzgod #rizzler #dance #carnival #carnivalsong #fyp #xybca #brainrot #rotting #brainrotting #viral ♬ original sound – 𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆝 𓆟
The meme has slowly made its way onto X, as well, though the “lore” is only just beginning there:
There admittedly does seem to be a little bit of context lost in translation to other platforms—and even in the newer TikToks about the party. Like this one:
As explained earlier in this post, this party was NOT the actual “TikTok Rizz Party” originally advertised via fliers back in May of 2023, though some users are posting as if the two are one and the same! The title has simply been co-opted for speaking about this sweet 16.
Glad we could get that all cleared up—it definitely didn’t age me several hundred years to research and explain.
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